My Life: It’s Complicated!

The heart wants what it wants. We don’t plan on making our life complicated, it just happens, and we don’t do it on purpose, and we don’t do it to hurt people who love us. It just turns out that way sometimes. Sooner or later in life, we will all take our own turn being in the position we once had someone else in. Something unexpected happens to us while we’re busy making other plans. That unexpected was a sudden change!! But why when we don’t invite it??

Now its something disappointing..

Weird Train of thoughts rushed.. Our mind says…


“I offer my body, my  mind and any ability that i posses,
to be used by Thee, O Infinite Creator, in whatever way Thou dost choose to express Thyself through me. I know that all work is Thy work, and that no task is too difficult or too menial when offered to Thee in loving service.”

Now here starts the Flood of Thoughts .. The Demon of Negativity enters our healthy brains.. We’re forced to realize..


“By the age of twenty, we know we’re not going to be a rock star. By twenty-five, we  know we’re not going to be any kind of professional. And by thirty, darkness starts moving in- we  wonder if we’re ever going to be fulfilled, let alone wealthy and successful. By thirty-five, we know, basically, what we’re going to be doing for the rest of our life, and we become resigned to our fate….”

 Is it the right way (to train our brains when we encounter uninvited change- change in our plans, change in our tasks, and some change in life)?? Our brains working well.. Really?? Think of it again!!

 Poor is the person who is afraid of  changes and stop making new plans.
Perhaps this person will never be disappointed or disillusioned;
perhaps s/he won’t suffer the way people do when they have a dream to follow.
But when the person looks back – and at some point everyone look back –
s/he will hear the heart, saying,
“What have you done with the miracles that God planted in your days?
What have you done with the talents God bestowed on you.
Committing Mistakes, Sudden Challenges, Unexpected Changes, Unknown Fears.. All these are part of life ,We have to rise up and say, “I don’t care how hard this is, I don’t care how disappointed I am, I’m not going to let this get the best of me. I’m moving on with these silly changes, they can never ever hold me back and I use them for my own benefit in future if possible, I promise.”   🙂

Remember, God helps those who help themselves.. So why are you afraid of Changes.. It’s important that we accept the change, adjust accordingly and move on. Yesterday is not ours to recover, but Tomorrow is always Ours.

 “The only way that we can live, is if we grow. The only way that we can grow is if we accept change. The only way that we accept change is if we learn. The only way we can learn is if we are exposed. And the only way that we can become exposed is if we throw ourselves out into the open. Do it. Throw yourself.”  

 We used to be free,
We used to walk through life like a breeze,
I don’t know why, but life has been dragging us and keeping us busy;

Let’s leave everything behind for a day,
Let’s toss the stresses and the pain goes away,
Hand in Hand, You and I,
Life is beautiful, Let’s live our way.


I believe the more we praise and celebrate our lives,
the more there is in life to celebrate.

 Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending 🙂


10 Replies to “My Life: It’s Complicated!”

  1. “The only way that we can live, is if we grow. The only way that we can grow is if we accept change. The only way that we accept change is if we learn. The only way we can learn is if we are exposed. And the only way that we can become exposed is if we throw ourselves out into the open. Do it. Throw yourself.”

    THIS IS GOING ON MY QUOTE WALL. It is perfect. Thanks for sharing it 🙂

  2. “poor are the ones who are afraid of changes”… Isn´t that true. It was my case, although I´m still poor but doing better, not homeless at least and a computer on hand, most of the times anyways, food and a roof over my head and then very little money to spare after paying rent and bills, but a step up. I´m 34 and I feel I can still do new things if my health improves. Or I should say I don´t auto destroy, you did say that “God helps those who want to be helped”, hopefully he helps me now, although my guess he is busy and HE is taking HIS time.

    1. hello charlypriest ! thanks for sharing your views, i have read your posts ,you have very good chain of thoughts ; and are not dumping them,but utilizing by posting on your blog.i like your work 🙂 . And as you said God is helping you now, it means you are helping yourself, you are working harder(may be more smartly), and ultimately it’s you who has to work, God is within us, he is our conscience(our sixth sense indeed),i believe there is no use of being human if we sit idle like any other animal(even they themselves find food by prey or steal or grab, they never depend on god for that atleast) as God gave us a brilliant body and beautiful brains,its our duty to utilize it,he will not gonna ask “how much brain you saved !!” :). if you were born poor,its not your mistake I agree but if you die poor, you did blunders in life,indeed .Apart from this as you’re moving to Alaska, i wish you a very happy and safe journey; have fun & enjoy . Thanks

      1. Had me smiling with the last part of moving to Alaska. I do believe in God, specially when I reached 30 and almost died because of the pancreas. Although before that there had been numerous brushes with death too. I´m still around, even though not in the best physical conditions, or mental to also cause my chain of thought as you said is kind of wacky I think. But if HE wants me around still, I better get my act together even much more and really work much more on myself which will translate to doing something that will resonate to people in life in a good way, that when I´m gone and God only knows when that will be but I´m certainly not getting to 40 and I´m 34, so I would really like to publish a book. But I lost the discipline and drive, got some back but not as much as is needed to complete that goal. That is my goal before the lights go out.
        Nice comment you made, appreciate it.

        1. 🙁 know you are lying, nothing gonna happen to you that early, you have sufficient time to accomplish what you want to and probably God is testing your strengths, i know you are very strong to fight back all challenges life thrust upon and ‘ll shine like a star. I wanna read your book once it get published, if possible drop a hint what is it about.I guess it’ll contain your experiences and challenges you faced; any way i wish you luck for its success, you ll definitely compelete it before time.

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