I’ve spent a number of months thinking about my lifestyle which I had and it was bullshit. I would eat junk food daily, very less exercise, would spend a lot of time with people who didn’t give a shit about if I called them at midnight, no productivity and …
And then I realized whatever I did was connected to my mind. I thought that’s why I did. I didn’t watch any inspirational video or listen to a life-changing speech, it is my mind which is responsible for what I am. The very first thing I tried to change and succeeded was my lifestyle. I stopped eating junk food first. I learned how to cook vegetables. Thanks to my mom and dad, especially, my dad. I learned how to talk, thanks to me, I learned how to treat others, thanks to me, I learned when to exercise and how to, thanks to me, and apart from all these habits, I learned how to find happiness. Thanks to me again.
It’s not easy but it is valuable. You will definitely enjoy new things once you start to change your lifestyle. For an example, you don’t take shower daily and don’t care about your body. You don’t give a shit about your health and one day, you happen to meet a model and you want to date her. Models are pretty inspirational. They take care of everything, even the style of the bedsheet. So, it would be very difficult for you to date her because her lifestyle is totally different from yours. And you don’t have to change our lifestyle for others if you have a good one. But if you have a poor lifestyle and need to meet someone who has a better lifestyle, it would be better if you look at your habits. I didn’t change my lifestyle for any model, I changed it because of the type of work I do.
Try to approach people who are better than you. Trust me, it will help a lot.
I’m in a good shape today. I function more than I ever imagined. I don’t eat junk food, I reduced the consumption of chocolates (I miss them) too and take care of calories I take. I talk to right people. My habits are changed. It’s not about being yourself, it’s about being the best version of yourself.
Habits make a good lifestyle and a good lifestyle reflects the character.
And yes, I found my happiness in my work. I just love to make things. Creative things…
I love this game.